Kamis, 29 Desember 2011

7 things you can learn from your child

"Please" and "thank you" say, eat with utensils, ride a bike: You are there every day for your child and put him in the course of his life in this and many other important things. And yet there are things you can learn from your child. We'll tell you what.

Exuberance and pure joy - two things we can learn from children (Photo: Thinkstock)
First Curiosity
"How many drops are in the rain?", "Why have other children to not eat enough?", "Why is the banana curved?" Children, a thousand questions and not give in until they get a satisfactory answer. Many of these children's naive questions expose us parents: Often we remember that we simply accept things without questioning them.Also, it would not hurt us if we were more curious and would like to go to things on the ground. This would expand our horizons for sure.
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Second Exuberance
Children are almost always play on the move, giggle rage, and also want to prefer their parents make a lot of nonsense. Unfortunately, most adults have long forgotten how to be totally unconcerned with real fun and engaging for their children. All too often we think, "Oh dear, how exhausting!" and the exuberance of our children try to steer into calmer. It would do us very well, sometimes to laugh again totally carefree and to think of nothing else but the moment.
Third True Joy
There is nothing easier than to bring children's eyes to shine: a small toy, a lollipop, one extra ride on the carousel or a round of frolicking with the parents. The kids are happy and pleased and honestly from the heart. How nice would it be if we feel even more real joy again and "infect" those around us so that would be!
4th Pure love
No one loves so honest, devoted and without ulterior motives, like a child! When the little children of your little hands to hug you and your child suddenly says, "Mom (Dad), I love you soooo sweet!", Then you can then melt with emotion! The gesture and the accompanying sentence is meant one hundred percent honest.
And we great? We also say "I love you!" - But sometimes just out of habit, sometimes because the other one would expect, because sometimes one's true feelings (yet) or because one wants to reveal the magical three words, something intended. How nice would it be if declarations of love between adults would also mean always as honest as the children.
5th Endurance
When a toddler learns to walk, to find it so often. But it wants to learn to walk, at any price! So it is always back on again and continue practicing until it works! Even when children grow older they are often with zeal and patience in the matter and not be discouraged by failure. Children show us: "persistence leads to success". Also, it can learn a lot of adults.
6th Be without prejudice
Children are very open mind towards people. They are curious and open, no matter how the other looks like, where he come from or what he does professionally.Children also have a lot of imagination and love slipping into other roles: sometimes they are knights and fairy and an hour later, deep sea divers and pizza maker. This change of perspective helps them find other children to fast one wavelength. Us adults, it is unfortunately often not so easy, completely at ease to approach others: appearance, status, pre-assessment or things you have heard about the person that influence the first meeting.
7th Fascination
A ladybug crawls on a leaf, a backhoe digs a trench, a ship sails under the bridge on which we stand by. Everyday events that we did not notice, but kids get to marvel.For the kids, it is unthinkable to go carelessly to excavators, ship or ladybugs over!Now and then we should also take time and let us pull ourselves together with our children by ordinary things in the spell.

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